What is the first thing a parent should do if you find your child masterbating?

Just wonderingWhat is the first thing a parent should do if you find your child masterbating?
well, for a guy, i think having his mom talk to him about that would be traumatizing, so I would think his dad would be the best person to approach him...i don't know if you are the mom or the dad, but if u r the mom, discuss it with your husband, well first, just exit the room ASAP...don't let him see that you saw him, then talk it over with your husband and have him talk to him about sex and all that stuff...don't mention that you know what he's been up to, that would just add to the already embarrassing talk...just let him know that it's normal and there's nothing to be ashamed of...that it's ok to experiment...but there's something to be worried about if he's constantly doin it...and besides, at least he's not doin the real thing...for a girl, i have no idea, sorry...What is the first thing a parent should do if you find your child masterbating?
Well, I think it would depend on whether your family is religous, but tell the child that sex is something that is meant to be sacred...it is the epitomal show of love between a man and a woman and that masurbating is a cheapening of that.
Absolutely essential you walk out, let them finish up then leave a note...








(saves embarrasment...)





Dear son/daughter fig the letter is less Jims dad moment in American pie all embarasment.








but what you were doing is perfectly normal, so dont worry, mum and dad are cool you learning how body works... Doing it with somone real will be better as you can snuggle up and cuddle after.





you are not dirty, you wont go blind, if female its best with a vibrator and Son better with Porn... Debbies Does Dallas is better then the boring stuff.








Everyone does it so sorry about embarrassing you... enjoy








End of letter.








If you dont do this you could seriously mess up the kid and be paying for oodles of councilling
masterbation is actually healthy for you...





by the way ur child was practicing safe sex.
id turn right back around and pretend i didn't see..





they would probably die of embarrassment if they got caught O_O
walk away and pretend you never saw anything