It sounds to me like there's nothing you can do. Next time, fall for an American woman. An American woman would never choose her parents over her husband!My wife mwant divorce only on the basis of age difference ,but I dont. . Actual this is due to hers parent ego?
Its crazy %26amp; confusing. You say that yours is a love marriage %26amp; did your wife not know about your age difference while she was in love. I think that she is being guided by someone from behind.
Moreover, she is not a kid to do whatever she is being told to do by her family. Now she is doing things against you without even thinking of your love %26amp; affection. So what is the use of your interest to live with her. She is definitely not going to give you her real love or peace in your life. Just forget her and take an alternative decision. Don't get sunk in her thoughts. When she plans to live without you, then you too can live a better life without her. Choose some other partner if you want and prove this girl that you can live in a better way. She should feel that she lost you because of her mistakes.
So is she wanting a divorce based solely on her parents' wishes? If she truly does love you as you love her, then why should her parents control her decisions?
If she doesn't love you as you love her, then just let her do what she wants to do, even if she's doing it under the advice of her parents.
Your problem sounds complicated, but if you don't want to lose her then convince her and her parents that you love her and want to be with her. If you cannot do this, then it sounds like there may be a divorce.
Get some marriage counselling. Let her know that you love her and that you are committed to this marriage; and ask her if she feels the same. Be patient, work hard to let her know that as a spouse you find your marriage important; then after she sees this - she will have to decide whether she wants to hold this relationship as more important or wants to go with her parents.
I apologize if it hurts you but then NOBODY CAN WALK AWAY FROM THE TRUTH. You have to accept that she is no more intersted in leaving with you. YOU CAN STILL TRY SPEAKING TO HER, JUST REMIND HER OF THE GOOD times that you have spent together. When you both married she knows that you were older or younger to her, but even then she married you. There might be a possibility that her family might be pushing her to divorse you. You have to speak to her %26amp; let her know that you are always there for her %26amp; will stand by for whole of your life.
But even then she doesn wanna be with you, DONT PUSH HER IT WOULD NOT HELP. SHe might start leaving with you physically, but her heart %26amp; mind would not be there.
I hope you want her love, rather than physically.
JUST GIVE HER SOME TIME TO REALIZE THAT YOU LOVE HER %26amp; SHE ALSO LOVES U %26amp; NEED U.
American women love there men independently .......they ';divorce'; on there decisions......not there parent's....
marry an american women and be happy..let this indian women go..she'll live her life for her parents and you'll always wished you'd got out...
One side of affection and Love will not work, trust me, let this relationship go .. i know it's kinda verrrry difficult,but, difficult decision has to be taken for a better life. ( just an advice, think over it)
dont let nothing get in your way if you love her and she loves you and shes of age run away with her and live a happy life and leave her parents behind!good luck!
That shouldn't be the case. The age thing. You knew that when she married you. Sounds like her family is to nosey and that she my be seeing someone else.
Sorry but it's not likely she didn't have some thoughts herself of wanting out. Best thing is to let her out.
cast???? sorry, I have no idea.
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