How can I tell if I'm being emotionally and mentally abused by a parent?

HOLY COW! My friend is going through the exact same thing. She's Greek and her parents put her through 14532859 tons of **** because she had children with a black guy and they're not married. Now not agreeing is one thing. But to tell your grandchildren they can't come to family functions because of their ';mavaro'; blood (n*gg*r) and saying that they will never be pure is totally outrageous. Well, they have money and they're respected in the Greek community so what can she really do? Her father slammed her THROUGH a wall once and then they called the police and the police took HER to jail. What is that about? If you FEEL abused, than you are. Point blank. No one else can tell you how you feel, so no one else can make the determination whether or not you're being abused. You know there's something wrong and you're not comfortable with the relationship (or lack of) that you have with the parent, so either they can respect your opinion as an adult or they don't have to deal with you. Either way, YOU make the choice whether or not YOU want them in your life. Would it be so much worse without them? Trust me, there's always a way to get through **** alone. Sometimes it's better because it makes you stronger. As long as your children adore you, that's all that should matter. If they don't that you're doing something wrong. One of the first things children learn to do is love. It takes a real *** to mess that up and if you're not feeling it for your parents, I'm sorry, but they can't really do much but hurt you then. Try it on your own a while. See how much freedom comes with cutting tangles out of your life. If your a parent yourself, it's already confusing enough. Good luck!How can I tell if I'm being emotionally and mentally abused by a parent?
please please call the abuse hotline or call a psyciatristHow can I tell if I'm being emotionally and mentally abused by a parent?
I'm not sure there is such a thing. Get in touch with a lawyer.
You might want to get some counseling regarding the possible issue of abuse. As to your current situation with you parents, as an adult, you can limit your interactions with them if they make you feel uncomfortable, and you can limit access to your children. Be careful though, grandparents play an important role in a child's life.
call cops and tell them
if it still continues get some space, get some therapy to clarify it and work thru the issues one day at a time.
i say if you take the time of writing this, i highly suspect that you are being ewmotionally disturbed by your parents...i suggest contact child protection agency asap b4 things are taken out of your control
My friend if your being emotionally or metaly abused by your parent you'll know it you won't feel good inside of your own skin around them you'll feel like your walking on eggshells and if they always use the I in there conversation its all about them and not for the interest of there children such as yourself I have a child and being a controlling parent is easy if you were raised with no types of bounderies one question to ask yourself are your emotional bounderies being towed with? I sure pray that you will ask God for help in your heart Just talk to him he'll answer you just trust to here his voice also there is a book called Bounderies when to say yes and when to say no. And there is a book called bounderies for children. Much love and luck in your search for help you'll get your answers I pray then will you be free in your person to stand strong in your truth as a child or teen which ever the case . bye
I've had my thoughts when i know when children or teens are really being mistreated by parents especially mentally and emotionally. I can tell you mainly with what your parents say to you and how they go about things. How they show they love you and handle things you do. For an example bringing you down, not encouraging you at all, saying they dont love you in words,just coming down on you for ';no'; apparent reason what so ever. Its just things you just look for just being around ur parent for you to know the things they do that show they are mentally and emotionally hurting you.
talk to a teacher that your really close to. they'll know what to do.
police
all parents are the same.


and we, their children will keep on feeling this way all our lives...


most of the people i know, age group (22-29) have similar problems and they all complain about them.


(it also depends where you live)...
Emotionally abuse is when ur parent yells at you or just tells you things that crush your feelings. For ex. when they tell you something that makes you feel less confident about yourself. I forgot the website but its on google and it talks about different types of abuse.
If you cant tell by the way you are treated, go seek help. Maybe from your minister at church?
u have to choices as they follow u can sit and talk to them about how u feel tell them u wish not to hear bickering and jus have a normal convo like adults if they choose not to then go about it the way way ur second choice is which is tell them politely to step which means cut them out ur life.. good luck with whatever u choose
If your parents are abusive try not to make them angry or depressed they might blame it on you and if they are really really abusive tell the cops or a very close and trusted friend. Try not to freak out it will fine and whoever you tell be sure they can be trusted.





I am praying for you GOOD LUCK!!=)
ok the way to tell is if you can see these signs ill explain as i go.





1) does she hate being at home


Meaning does she always try to go to someone house





2) does she hate when poeople want to come over


Does she get mad or depressed when people want to come over





3) Does she hate being her or think about suicide


Has she said anything about hurting herselg in anyway





So if you see those sign you know shes being abused