showing xxx pictures and teaching the disadvantages and advantage of sexual activity.Is It permissible for Parent to coach sexual activities to siblings at pre-teenage of age?
I think with how society is nowadays and how kids are sexually active earlier and earlier, it is imperative to teach kids about sex. There is no way you can ever control if your child has sex or not. Even if you tell them no, they could do it at a friend's house, a party, or even school. You just need to educate them about the risks (STDs, pregnancy, emotional repercussions).
I would rather have my child know about the risks, be aware of them and be safe than not educate them and have them be ignorant and find out the hard way.
No parent really WANTS their child to have sex at a young age, but I'd definitely feel better knowing that they understand what can happen, the consequences, etc...Is It permissible for Parent to coach sexual activities to siblings at pre-teenage of age?
A mother or Father can provide a far broader, in a deeply personal manner of sex than a school teacher. By talking about the importance of sex in a relationship, you can strengthen his or her resistance to other reasons for having sex (such as curiosity and peer pressure). Instead of the child only receiving information from those who would encourage, manipulate, or harm your child for gain, you can create a dialogue that will take away the isolation your child may feel.
You may be surprised by this, but encouraging your daughter or son to reflect on the importance of her or his own desire actually decreases her or his risk of unwanted pregnancy. Girls and boys who have a mother's or father's encouragement to value the pleasure of sex are likely to be more prepared for and in control of their sexual experiences. Positive messages about sex seem to be more effective in supporting a teen's control over sexual activity than do the ';just say no'; messages.
Sex education for pre-teens or teens is not wrong but I wouldn't go as far as showing pictures or videos of the sexual acts. Suffice that the children know the effects of engaging in something adulterous and the repercussions of doing so when one is too young, too immature and still irresponsible. That by allowing oneself to be drawn into a lustful attraction can only ruin a person, his/her life and his/her future.
I think it is better to be open with these kids when they start being inquisitive or notice the difference between men and women rather than to keep mum and pretend or hope that they will learn on their own (through others or experience) and which might be too late for some or when damage has become irreparable.
Absolutely not. Thats child abuse, plain and simple. The pervert giving that reasoning must think we are all idiots.
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